Posts Tagged ‘brother’
I have a custody issue, can you help with my brother, his girlfriend and their kids?
Ok here is the situation, my brother met a girl online, she moved from a completely different state to be with him. We didn’t know anything about her, where she came from, who her family is… nothing. They set up house together and about 8 months later we find out she is 7 months pregnant. She claimed she "had no idea that she was pregnant". We all knew that was BS, but chose for my brother’s sake to keep the peace. Not long after the birth of their first child, they got pregnant with their 2nd. Mind you we still know nothing about her or her family, and think that they don’t even know she has kids. So flash forward a year later the kids are now 1 and 3. She decides that she hates my brother and wants to move herself and the kids to the mid west (we are in the north east) to live with a "family" she met online! Not in person…online!! I think it is more likely that she is going to shack up with a new man, or has gotten her self mixed up with some weird fundamentalist group. At any rate she has my brother convinced that this is a good idea and after a few months he is going to move out there and they will live happily ever after. Please note my sarcasm as I am really laying it on thick. If you have not already figured it out, my brother, who is very book smart, is outrageously naive. I did a backround check on her and found out that she has married like 5 times, yet there is no mention of any divorces. My brother won’t hear any of it because he has decided that he is going to “trust the woman he loves”. I don’t care if she leaves, hell I don’t even care if he leaves, I am worried about the babies. My husband and I have already offered to take the kids and give them a stable home, to no avail. I am very concerned about the safety of these children. It is my understanding that if he allows her to leave the state without any kind of legal paper work drawn up, he will have a very hard time regaining custody, and she does not have to give him the opportunity to see them, nor does she have to tell him where she takes them next. And the rest of us can pretty much forget about ever being a part of these two beautiful childrens lives forever. What can I do???!!??
PS: LC if you are reading this…I am on to you babe
My little brother just……….?
My younger brother just created a myspace. He’s 12 and I’m kinda worried. Especially because I know there are sick people out there who look for little kids online. He’s pretty naive for his age and probably doesn’t have a clue about internet safety. I made my myspace when I was 13 but I was more mature than he is now. Should I be worried? Should I ask him to delete it for his safety? Or just help him out and check and make sure he stays safe online? A couple of opinions would be nice.
Thanks!